I am a political junkie. I read whatever I can get my hands on (even if it is Ann Coulter). I make somewhat rational decisions. I consider myself to be incredibly strong in my political beliefs. I can argue intelligently with those who do not share my beliefs (as least I hope I do). But more than anything, I am open to the possibility that I can and have been wrong. This is something that is incredibly hard to admit. I have a HUGE ego. But, yes ladies and gents, I can admit to being wrong; and I can do so without holding a grudge (or at least much of one). I understand that “The World According to Erin” is not the world that everyone lives in. I have had friends, enemies, and all of those in between who show me time and time again that their view point is just as valid as mine — no matter how different it may be. I know that my ideologies do not perfectly fit with the majority of the country; if they did, we would have socialized medicine, no glass ceiling, activist judges, and mandatory world religion classes starting in grade 1. I get it. I really do.
I like the arguing. I like the debate. I thrive on it. Why? It strengthens my position to have the opposing side find the loopholes that I need to work on. Sometimes, it lets me see something from an entirely different angle which, can in fact, lead to me altering my argument. I like the idea of compromise because that is the only way that this country will work. Those who stand on their own side and shout at the others do nothing to help their case and, by negativity, strengthen their opposition.
It is all about compromise. Not compromising your values or beliefs, but realizing that those beliefs are not universal. It’s getting in the room and hashing out the details. It is having political discussions with friends over beers and not holding a grudge when they do not change their minds based on your ideas.It is not raising your voice but opening your mind and really listening.
I find it funny to listen to people on both sides of the aisle talk about their opposition. They speak of them as if they were evil; that they don’t know what the country needs. And, on one hand, they are right….they don’t really know what the country needs. They don’t realize that there isn’t one answer but, rather, a million answers. It is not about being wrong or right — it is about being just and fair and pursuing the principle of equality. It is about listening.
I just wanted to say “thanks” to those Senators of U.S. Congress who genuinely tried to come together for their party, their beliefs, and their country this week. We recognize your efforts and we thank you. You earned your pay this week, as well as added respect. Thanks for knowing that right now, it is about common ground and progress, and not battles.
Here are the 14. The Republicans: John Warner (Virginia), John McCain (Ariz), Olympia J. Snowe and Susan Collins (of Maine), Mike DeWine (Ohio), Lindsey O. Graham (S.C.), and Lincoln D. Chafee (R.I.). The Democrats are Robert C. Byrd (W.Va.), Joseph I. Lieberman (Conn.), Ben Nelson (Neb.), Mark Pryor (Ark.), Mary Landrieu (La.), Daniel K. Inouye (Hawaii) and Ken Salazar (Colo.).